You did it: You either said yes to the big question or asked the big question or did what my husband and I did and ended up engaged after a mundane but delightful conversation without a bended knee or a ring box (which would still be my choice). And now you’ve picked the date, and the ominous part of this event is upon you. Let The Santa Barbara Independent’s wedding guide help you sort out who in this beautiful city and its surrounding towns can assist you with your declaration of love — from photographers to caterers to bakers to florists.