Dave Denniston, a resident of Santa Barbara for over 30 years, has been a hero to many families who have adult children with developmental challenges. Sadly, our friend, mentor, and father passed away suddenly in late December 2019. Since his death, many families that Dave has helped have said exactly the same thing: “He changed my life.” Dave has indelibly made an impact on the lives of everyone he knew as well as our community. His time with us on earth will resonate for years ahead.
In life, Dave was a humble and unpretentious person, shrugging off heartfelt expressions of appreciation and refocusing attention elsewhere. He didn’t need accolades. He was a man who thrived on helping — easily setting aside his own time to devote himself to the benefit of others.
As the father of a child with a developmental disability, he forged a path for other families by creating natural supports for his daughter in her home, and then by consulting and talking to families throughout the state about his experience and knowledge. He is recognized as a pioneer of supported living — from a father’s perspective. It was his personal touch that made the difference.