Falling in love, check. Proposal, check. Deciding to marry in Santa Barbara, check. Now what? In some ways, the work is just beginning ​— ​there are invitations to mail; a venue to book; flowers, food, music, and a theme to choose; and a honeymoon to plan. Because there are so many details to figure out, we’ve compiled a list to help make planning your big day ​— ​and the days leading up to it ​— ​easier.